The main dilemma of this modern world we are living is that we don’t have time to listen anyone or to share anything with anyone. Apparently, we all seem normal but from inside there is a very small percentage of people those who are contented and happy with this life style.
Do you know the reason behind?
We have lost the freedom of expression basically. It can be either due to the this materialistic life. Expression of thoughts and freedom of expression is very important for living a positive life. All living things whether human beings or animals have emotions and feelings but their way of expression is different. If we don’t share and express, they turn into a violence of severe kind.
You might know about Sigmund Freud an Australian Neurologist and founder of psychology, he used the term “Catharsis” that means free outlet of emotions. He emphasized upon the significance of expression and sharing. If we do not, it can turn into violence and that violence can be of several types that can destroy your relations or destroy ourselves even.
We must always give a free outlet to our thoughts, our beliefs, ideas and emotions about different issues and never suppress them otherwise, they suppress you and will keep on start making noise in your mind like honey bees in a jar. As Sylvia Plath, an English poetess has described in her poem “The Arrival of the Bee Box”
How can i let them out?
It is the noise that appalls me most of all,
These lines clearly reveal that if we don’t give a free out let to our emotions, they can be very dangerous and disturbing to us. At the end of the same poem she says;
Tomorrow I will be sweet God, I will set them free
The box is temporary.
Hence, it clearly depicts that how much it is painful. But our society s responsible for that and somehow our families as well. While living in family we cant talk against the decision made by the dominating figure of the family and same in society.
These suppressed and controlled emotions can never let you live a happy life and will make you deprive of the real joys. They will make you suffering from inferiority complex and anxiety.
I would like to conclude by saying that give time to your relations and make your life beautiful. Neither suppress your thought nor let your dear ones to do. Keep patience of listening and sharing. Let your children to do sharing with you, give confidence to your spouse for letting their thoughts to be shared with each other. Otherwise,
The box is locked, it is dangerous.😟
الف نگری کی انتظامیہ اور ادارتی پالیسی کا اس مصنف کے خیالات سے متفق ہونا ضروری نہیں ہے۔ اگر آپ چاہتے ہیں کہ آپ کا نقطہ نظر پاکستان اور دنیا بھر میں پھیلے کروڑوں قارئین تک پہنچے تو قلم اٹھائیے اور 500 سے 700 الفاظ پر مشتمل تحریر اپنی تصویر، مکمل نام، فون نمبر، سوشل میڈیا آئی ڈیز اور اپنے مختصر مگر جامع تعار ف کے ساتھ ہمیں ای میل کریں۔ آپ اپنے بلاگ کے ساتھ تصاویر اور ویڈیو لنک بھی بھیج سکتے ہیں۔
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